Hi sabrina, I think I am the last person to be giving relationship advice here as I havent had a good track record with men... but here goes anyway. I would say to go with your feelings. If you feel you want to be friends with him and can handle that then do so. There isnt anything wrong with being friends with your ex but if you do think that he has motives behind the offer then perhaps you should stay away and decline. I dont know....Do you want him back? Did you have a good relationship with him?