Well stated Shy
Very good indeed ...........
Obviously I am in total agreement with you on this
**My family did the same only because it was Mom that always initiated it or me
Now that she is gone I feel I have lost all family with her
Nothing is the same
I do reach out though and try the least I can do I feel
I look after my dad who has alzheimers and they rarely are there either just occasionally
and I know he forgets alot but I also know this hurts him too
My Cait goes down and listens to him for hours about
the "OLD Days" n Antiques ..he looks forward to it and she does too
I take him to Wednesday market or shopping all the time 'I will not let other things come between us I want the good memeories before he is gone ya know
I wish you all the best
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