Wow restless, I know how scary that can be,and I am so sorry that you are going thru this.
I am not the person to give relationship advice as I have been divorced,and struggle with my own relationhip,I think the depression makes it worse.
Woman to Woman though.... now is the time to start planning on taking care of yourself.
When I left my Ex husband, in order to get thru it I had to have a plan,along with a couple of back up plans. It was the only way that I could have mentally survived it all.
If things are really going sour,and there is no chance of working it out. Then you need to be #1 in your life. Taking care of yourself,not letting anyone bring you down. Walking away feeling stronger than you ever have.
I always say that people with depression are very strong people. How else would they be able to walk around with that fake smile,and fake laugh when they are really dying inside?
Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia