Well,in my experience with fellas and their cars, motorcycles etc. they just Hate to lose them! Whether it be by fire, accident, theft or whatever..and they become very Sore losers about these kind of losses..'grumpy ol bears' to be exact! lol
Because of what you have been through together you are both gonna be 100% more sensitive just now..he's gonna be more growly and you are gonna be more tearful.
A good way to make him realise what he has said is to reply with "Pardon?" (as if you didn't hear) and make him repeat himself...hopefully he will realise how hurtful he is being and apologise..or, the ball is in your court girlfriend - deal with the situation as you see fit lol.
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