((((HUGS))))Hello Shy , I can understand full what you have said on both accounts as for having a few wines to be able to let it out is that so bad I have done it on several occassions .With all my issues i went to a farewell dinner the other night only to be told five minutes before that i had to present out president with a gift and give a speech .Only after a few glasses of wine was i able to even consider doing it i was so frightened but in the end i did it .I know i have been bottling up so much on the inside as i just can talk about
a lot of stuff not to anyone especially my hubby and we have been married 26yrs next week .For me to let it out i have to be extreemly ticked off and i know thats not how it should be but as the years have passed by more time has been spent on the kids and family not US and somehow we have lost the communications to our relationship .Most of the time i`m just to scared to share how i feel .
Talk with your boyfriend more about
what was let out the explosion was the beginning point you both know what the problems are now so it`s time to work on them .
As for your son even though you say she is acting like his father both children need time by themselves with each parent reguardless so plan for that with future visits .Give that to your son as a future plan and i`m sure he will be glad to gome for easter with his sister .