I'm a newbie here. My husband was diagnosed today with ADHD and depression, which we pretty much both knew were the problem, its just taken a few weeks to get an appointment and get the insurace ironed out.
We have a 20 month old son, and i'm 25 weeks pregnant with our next boy, and the downward spiral the depression has caused in my husband and in our relationship has really taken a toll on me. He is my best friend, and he has been so distant and uninvolved in everything that I feel like I am all by myself. The logical part of my brain understands that it is NOT about me, and that he loves me, our son, and the one on the way...but the emotional side of me just wants my husband back.
They prescribed him med's today, and he goes for talk tehrapy next week, and I know it will help, but there is a part of me that is afraid it is too late, and he has just disconnected from me so much he wont find his way back.
Thanks for listening, I really have no other outlet to get this out of me, which is why I came here.