Hi ya Aurora. I have a sister who is in the same shows you are in. She moved to minneapolis about
3 yrs ago. SHe used to live in Bismarck which is 500 miles away. Her son went with her, he is 19 yrs old. He did not like the cities because he was a nervous wreck driving. so he made the choice to move back to Bis. Her son has learning disabilities,seizures the hole nine yards. Her sons gets help from the state on housing assistance, she has a friend the kinda looks after him. We had a long talk about
her putting her life on hold for him, and made a choice to let him be a man and be by himself. They talk daily, she still has control of his disability checks. He seems to do allright most days. Some days his exiety takes over. Them are the days he is not taking his meds. My feelings are what is your son gonna do when you are no longer here? So i think it would be ok to move, talk to a social worker and see if you can find him some housing assistance. you two still can talk like my sister and son do. Just my opinion. Hope it all works out for ya. Let go and Let the big guy take care of it.