My boyfriend always wants to "cheer me up" when I get in one of my depressed moods. I tell him not even to try, but he always does, and then later on, we get in an argument about how he's always cheering me up. I'm just not sure how to handle that. I feel like me being upset is tearing us apart. I never mean to take things out on him, but I know that he feels like that. Any comments?