Hey Sweetie, hello. This is Kitt. I am sorry your son is being down right mean. You deserve to be happy and if he is working with people on his disability than you start making your plans.
In fact, your plans sound really cool, as I have retired but all my friends work so I am lonely too.
You stick to your plans and go for that retirement community. He is being very disrespectful and causing you great pain. No illness gives you the right to hurt others.
Email me if you want, I am usually around.
Moderator Anxiety ~ Panic Disorders
*~* Not a mental health professional at all *~*
Dx: Anxiety/Panic, Depression
"If you doubt you can accomplish something, then you can’t accomplish it. You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.”