One of a parents worst nightmare is happening to you! I am so worried about
my 19 year old daughter,and praying she never gets herself in that kind of trouble.
I know this is going to sound tough..but you might have to put your foot down with these kids. If they think they are old enough to support a baby then they both need to get off of their butts and get a job.
Maybe give them a deadline :(one month before the baby is born) that they are going to have to get a place of their own.
Remember Sassy,there are alot of programs that those kids can get help with. I know it is hard to tell your kids to get into the system to get on their feet...but it is either that or you are supporting them. And that is not going to be a healthy environment for anyone.
I had a baby at the young age of 18,and had no idea what it was going to be like. We had alot of hard times,but did make it. But,one of the reasons I credit for making it was that either of our families let us live off of them.
They made us do it on our own. They did help,and did come around to make sure things were going ok. I knew they were only a phone call away.
Sometimes tough love is the only way to get a kid to wake up.
Please keep us posted and stay strong!
Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia
Meds I have taken throughout the years:Wellbutrin,Tranxene,Paxil,Prozac,Valium,
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