I hope you start to feel better Restless...I thought of an idea that might make your husband a little more attentive to the household needs.
You could tell him that if the kids do not start cleaning up after themselves,then you are hiring a maid to come once a week. You could even do some research on the idea and get prices and write them down and set them somewhere for him to see.
Maybe then the thought of spending money on someone to help you clean the house will get his butt in gear.
After all your marriage license does not say "Maid" !!
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