I feel that we have decided that the people wanting out of the marriage are married to a spouse that must be must be depressed about something.........what if the triggering factor is the marriage they need to get out of before they can begin to heal. Just asking a question and not aiming at anyone.
Many things cause depression and there is the situational depression that people experience.
I have never wanted out of my marriage and I have depended on my husband as he depends on me. We take care of each other.
My first husband was my depression..............I needed to leave that relationship to get better.
My ex was a good person but not the love of my life and we were just a bad mix. He has remarried and found happiness as I did and I have been married to my present husband for 35 years.
Just thinking out loud, I do not have the magic answer. Bless you WCC and gentle hugs
Moderator Anxiety ~ Panic Disorders
*~* Not a mental health professional at all *~*
Dx: Anxiety/Panic, Depression
"If you doubt you can accomplish something, then you can’t accomplish it. You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.”