BlueMoon, I totally agree with Shy here. You really need to put a stop to whatever is going on with this guy. Sometimes the guys that cant or dont get the hints are the weird ones. Dont feel guilty, like you said you need to concentrate on other things and your just not interested in him...end of story. Trust me if you shake him loose he will find another girl by next week to fall lin love with.
As for loving yourself before you can love someone else well, that is a tough question. I think all of us have some self doubt and insecurities. I cant say I totally love myself but I am capable of loving someone else. Well, I think I am . Anyway, you do what you feel is right for you. Before you know it things will fall into place.
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I agree with Shy too,
You might need to be brutally honest with him but he will find someone else next week once he realises there is no chance. He's probably lonely or possibly a wierdo. On a personal level, its not a risk I would want to take.
Post Edited By Moderator (els) : 8/14/2007 4:37:13 AM (GMT-6)