Well I agree with all the kind advice others have shared with you but I do think you need to see a therapist to talk through your frustrations and become educated about Depression and Anxiety. Just my humble opinion.
In your post you wrote that she was there for you through hip surgery and Crohn's Flair up...........both huge issues for you.
She went to Sturgis where there are what 250,000 people. I give her tons of credit for fighting that crowd. Sturgis just ended, maybe she needs to have some down time.
I ride my own Harley but my husband could beg me for a long time before I would get in the middle of that rally. Kudos to both of you for going.
I met the Orange County Choppers crew Saturday night and they opened the truck so we could see the 12 bikes they were hauling.........just a little foot note there :)
I know living with a person with chronic illness is not easy. My hubby has had Crohn's for 31 years, is it a Biker's disease? lol
Take care and keep posting. Look for the light at the end of the tunnel.
Moderator Anxiety ~ Panic Disorders
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Dx: Anxiety/Panic, Depression
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