Not veryhappy right now. I had a reply all written up and hit the back button to many times. argggggg. Lets try it again
My wife was admitted to a out patient program for her Depression and Axiety disease. She started 2 weeks ago on wednesday. She goes from 9am to 3pm. 5 days a week. The hospital where she is being treated is 80 miles away from where we live. They have a house where she stays. Anyday now she could have a roommate, which i think would be great. Depending on the person of course. She does not want anyone. Which in a way i can understand.
My wife (Karen) likes to live in the past. cannot let go what i said 3 yrs ago. One couselor told her to live for the hear and now. I remind her of this and she says he is right but she just can't do it. I told her that is ok just try it when u think about it. Yes i do remind her of it way to often. and it is bugging her. I don't mean no harm by it though. so i am trying tokeep my big mouth shut. BIg job for me.
The counselor told us which i know that we need to see a marriage counselor. No lie i said. BUt we tried that about a yr ago. to no avail. I do not mind going back again but, i just want my honey to get better first before we sit threw them class again. The counselor that my honey is seeing told me i need to get rid of my sarcasam and to learn how to compromise. LOL. I do i think. Lots of ppl that know our situation agree with me. The counselor does not know the hole story. No biggie. I know who i am. and i am not that bad. Not perfect either. It takes two.