I am going to give you a different point of view. I got married at 17,the marriage was a disaster from day one. It became abusive both mentally and physically and it took me 13 years to get enough guts to get out.
If he is having second thoughts now,then I think you need to start watching out for yourself and tell him that you deserve someone that loves you and wants to be with you. Not someone that is abusing you emotionally like this by telling you he does not love you.
If he is doing this so early on in your marriage,will it continue? Will it get worse?
Simply,are you better off with him or without him?
I know those are hard questions to ask yourself,and to see in black and white but they are questions that you need to think about
in order to get yourself into a healthier environment.
Please stay strong and keep us posted.
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Meds I have taken throughout the years:Wellbutrin,Tranxene,Paxil,Prozac,Valium,
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