I'm new to this site and hope that you can give me some input on my situation. My husband and i have been married
for 8 months now. I thought things were great...little did i know! our courtship was short about 8 months. He asked me to marry him sooner then most of my friends thought was the "right" time to wait. I felt that I had finally found a man that accepted me for who I was and he actually wanted to marry me. I couldn't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. Long story short, about a month
ago my easy going quiet husband exploded and said he wanted out. He claimed to have never loved me. I just could not belive what I was hearing. I pleaded with him for us to see a counsler or a priest. We saw a priest and have tried to work things out. He says it was hard for him to talk me because of my reactions.
I must admit that I can be high strung at times and since this incident I have learned to relax and think before I take any action. He now tells me things are better and that if he didn't love me he would not be with me.
What worries me the most about my husband is the fact that he says he still has an empty feeling and when he wakes up he feels depressed. How do I ask him to get help without sounding to pushy or making him feel bad.
Thank you for your time,