I never had the guts to face my abuser again. Now,I read the obits every morning hoping to see his name. He is pretty old,and I know that day will come. What I am going to do when that day happens is a different story.
But,I wrote a letter to my abuser. It took me a month,and it took me about
2 weeks to finally put it in the mailbox. But,I told him that he ruined my life. I told him just what he did to that 12 year old girl's life,and how I wish he would spend the rest of his life (I am trying to be politically correct here,but you can imagine what I said).
It did not make the nightmares go away,It did not make the fear go away,but I know that he is now aware of what he did.
It is up to you whether or not you send this letter.
I am so glad that your boss is understanding. That will make things alot easier for you.
Please be strong (((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))
Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia
Meds I have taken throughout the years:Wellbutrin,Tranxene,Paxil,Prozac,Valium,
Have been med free for 2 years now.www.healingwell.com/donate