I walked out on my X 6 years ago,and I had never felt so much relief in my life it seemed. It took me awhile to get used to being alone. Making my own decisions ect ect.
Divorce is hard on the kids. My advice for them is to just make sure when he is older that he understands that he did nothing wrong. For some reason kids within a divorce seem to blame themselves.
I was bullied throughout my marriage and throughout the divorce,I just wanted out and did not care what had to be done. I do regret that now...so just make sure that you ask for the world. Then at least you will get what is coming to you.
And you always remember that just because a man steps out of a marriage,that does not mean the wife has done anything wrong!!!!!
And remember this: It seems that once they cheat,they continue down that path. So,he might think he is happy and she thinks he is just a great guy..but we both know the same thing is going to happen to her.
Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia
Meds I have taken throughout the years:Wellbutrin,Tranxene,Paxil,Prozac,Valium,
Have been med free for 2 years now.www.healingwell.com/donate