I am sorry that you are going through this,and kudos for you for wanting to help your wife.
I do however agree with Navy,when we are at our lowest the last thing that we can handle is someone bringing up our major problems. I am sure she is aware of what is going on,and it is very frustrating. Her not having any interest in sex is the depression.
See,we tend to push things away that gives us pleasure because we do not think that we deserve it.
That is one of the first signs of depression "do you not do things that you used to enjoy"...
And we take our harsh feelings out on the one that we love. It causes alot of problems with relationships,and alot of relationships are lost due to that.
And again I agree with Navy,talking about
sexual problems between partners is such a touchy subject.
Either person wants to bring it up because they do not want to upset the other.
Hence the reason many marriages have problems in that area.
Therapy is a great idea,and you should really think about
Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia
Meds I have taken throughout the years:Wellbutrin,Tranxene,Paxil,Prozac,Valium,
Have been med free for 2 years now.www.healingwell.com/donate
Post Edited (ShynSassy) : 11/17/2007 5:50:18 AM (GMT-7)