I am so sorry for what you are going through,you have so much on your plate and it is not fair at all.
I have a serious question,where are his children? Do they understand how he is?
I think it is time for you to ask for help. Call his kids and tell them you need them to come over at least a couple times a week and help take care of their father. Let them know that you are in alot of pain and can't keep this up right now.
Also, I would google Alzheimers,put in your town and see if there are any support groups out there...and it might be time to contact his doctor and let him know what is going on. Maybe they can arrange for a nurse to come to the house a couple times a week.
I do not understand why this man has decided that you are his personal maid,and I do not know what stage his disease is...
There is nothing wrong about
asking for help..everyone needs a little help sometimes.
Lexapro is a good med. Keep in mind it does take 4-6 weeks to take full effect,you are going to have to be really strong during this time.
Please think about
getting help for your family and remember we will be here for you whenever you need us.
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