He needs to get in touch with the HR Department at his job and let them know that he is being treated for depression. Maybe that will give him a little more time to get his act together and not loose his job.
I normally would tell someone to be very careful when it comes to the HR Dept/Depression because not alot of jobs even care enough to understand. But,if he is on his last rope with this job then I don't think that it would make a difference if they didn't care in the first place. ...at least there is hope that they will.
You have to do what is right for you and your kids. We can't tell you that you should just kick him out,that would not be fair of us to make those decisions for you.
I do not even know what I would do in your situation. One he is not pulling his load and it is making you sick yourself. Two he is sick,but is not trying to get better....I am not sure what is going on in his mind,maybe he needs to go to the hospital and check in???
Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia
Meds I have taken throughout the years:Wellbutrin,Tranxene,Paxil,Prozac,Valium,
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