Hello, this is Kitt and Welcome.
I too am glad that you have talked with your wife and please keep the communication lines open.
I know life can deal us a lousy hand sometimes but it appears to me that you have risen to the challenges and not only deal with your own problems but are caring and supportive of your wife.
I commend you for being such a decent and caring person.
Warmest wishes for a happy holiday season and a wonderful new year.
Moderator Anxiety ~ Panic Disorders
*~* Not a mental health professional at all *~*
Dx: Anxiety/Panic, Depression, GERD, Osteoarthritis
*Wife of a Crohnie*