I am looking for anyone with some advice. My husband has had epilepsy for over 20 yrs no seizures in over 9yrs. His dr has said he can wean off his meds ( Dilantin) but he is nervous to do so. My issue is his sleep habits/insomnia are affecting our entire family. I am willing to move mountains to help find a solution for us. He usually gets home from work by 5;15 and is passed out on the couch by 7:00pm he sleeps til about 1am and goes to bed til maybe 2:30 or 3:00 then gets up and leaves for work at 7:00am. Now our problems are we have two kids ages 9 and 12 who dont get to spend any time with him because his sleep habits and it is taking a toll on our marriage/intamacy due to his not being on a "so called normal" schedule. He currently does not take any sleep aids, does anyone have any advice on maybe tweaking or switching meds or adding a sleep aid. ANY advice right now would be a blessing. Again my heart goes out to all of you struggling with this disease as I do not have it myself I see thru my husband how dibilitating it can be.