QTK, my sister in gab!
OK, I consider myself a very open and honest person, probably a little too honest and open at times, so unlike a lot of people here (and I respect everyone's own personal feelings on this subject), I'll probably need to censor myself. LOL
Anyway, the last "time" this happened for me, I was in the middle of a horrible flare, and I was SO painful that things didn't go very well-I mean, they went well, but I was so painful that they didn't go very well for me. Wait, you know what? I can't "tell it like it is" here, so please email me (I'd email you, but you don't have your address available to click on).
So, email me and I'll tell you the whole story, LOL. That way, I can be completely honest and I won't get banned!