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   Posted 1/1/2009 9:32 PM (GMT -7)   
shakehead  Somehow,Hey it Worked! Yea! First good thing to Happen to me in Days. Hope My Favorite Color Comes through in the message.It did`nt in any of my others. So SORRY,I Ramble When The Pain is Bad & Today My Fibro & MS are Waging a War to see Which Will Bring to My Knees First. IT`S A Tie,Coming Along With My Relationship of 33 Wonderful Years Falling APART Around me And Everything I Do & SAY Just Makes It Worse And to Top it All Off Im getting the Cold or Flu cause I have a Fever of 102,Chills,Sore throat. Im ready to Crack. I Need To Hear Anything From Anyone PLEASE. I Always Try And Help Anyone I See in Pain whenever Im Able Tonight I Need Help. Im So Sorry to Whine but All This is Just Too Much! THANKS For Listening & or Reading Hopefully Answering.  Peace & FRIENDSHIP. May everyone Here or In Pain Have A Much Better,Pain Free 2009!   " REMEMBER To PLAY After Every STORM" By - Mattie Stepanik.   Purple2

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   Posted 1/1/2009 9:40 PM (GMT -7)   
Im sorry to hear of you in pain. I totally understand! My fibro has been controlled mostly...but I had a reaction when I gave blood and its caused flu-like symtoms... Im hurting ALL neck is KILLING me...everything... Im sorry, I hate to complain, but couldnt help it!

Lets hope that tomorrow will bring less pain and more peace!
Lyrica and Paxil (both working quite well might I add!)
   "Cracks in the concrete are just reminders that you fall apart no matter how strong you are"
    "Sometimes it is best to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve"
    "Im going to smile like nothing is wrong, talk like everything is perfect, act like its all a dream, and pretend its not hurting me."

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   Posted 1/1/2009 9:40 PM (GMT -7)   
Wow, it does sound overwhelming!

Try to take some time to do something nice just for you. Maybe a warm bath, or some deep breathing while you rub your favorite lotion on your hands or feet. Relax and watch a favorite movie. Call a friend or family member. Have a good cry. Just sit and slowly breath. Curl up under your favorite blanket and watch old TV shows.

Do whatever it is that would usually make you feel better.

I'm sorry you feel so bad. It seems like everything is hitting you at once.

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   Posted 1/1/2009 9:46 PM (GMT -7)   

I am so sorry for the pain and stress you are going through right now. I wish I could make everything better for you! I know it is hard to relax when you are in pain, but that's what you need to do. Maybe a nice warm bath & a nice cup of tea?

Are you taking anything for pain? I hope you have something to at least work a bit for you. The flu is going around our area right now & about all you can do is keep warm and let it go it's course. Hot tea, chicken soup, etc. will make you feel a bit better.

They always say it comes in threes and in your case it did. I am sorry about your relationship. I hope things work out alright for you. Please take care of yourself and try to forget about everything else.

Feel free to holler anytime you need to talk!

Hugs!!!    Margie

P.S.   Your purple did come through!!

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   Posted 1/1/2009 9:51 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm so sorry for everything you are going through. I hope things get better for you very soon!
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   Posted 1/1/2009 10:05 PM (GMT -7)   
Rest, rest and rest dearie. Drink plenty of fluids and try not to do to much around the house.


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   Posted 1/1/2009 10:11 PM (GMT -7)   
Hello 2Tired,
I'm in tears for you right now. MS and Fibro? Can I tell you that I'm sending you a cyber hug right now? Not a bear hug (cuz that would hurt!), but a gentle-I-care kind of hug. I have multiple AI diseases too. It almost seems too unreal to have to live with it all doesn't it. I just want you to know I understand, as much as I'm able.
Not sure if you are a spiritual person, but if you would like someone to pray for you, or with you, just let me know okay.
I can do anything through Jesus Christ who strengthens me. I have learned in whatever state I am in,to be content. Phillipians 4:11-13

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   Posted 1/2/2009 5:47 AM (GMT -7)   

I cant imagine how bad it must be for you  ,  I hope you have more better times than the bad times you are currently in.  On my bad days I sit in a chair  hunched over crying , I think we all can relate to that.  Get better soon.  suse2z sad sad

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   Posted 1/2/2009 2:34 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi 2tired. My favorite color too. The relationship falling apart might be behind everything else. That has to be sooo stressful on you and stress causes fibro to be worse. I truly hope you can work things out. Best of luck and I hope it all gets better. You know we are here for you.
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   Posted 1/2/2009 2:36 PM (GMT -7)   
2tired, I am so sorry for your pain & suffering.  I wish I could take part of it from you for awhile, to give you some relief, but that's not possible, I know.  I hope things level out for you.  Dealing with more then one illness is so hard & then to have relationship problems on top of it is just too much.  I have found that when I am flaring I can't seem to say anything that I want to say.  It sounds right in my head but then when I say it, it falls like a rock into the middle of the mess that is my life.  I try to not deal with major problems in my relationships if I am flaring or in a fog.  I need to stay calm & just let things go because I will not be able to fix anything & will only make my flares & problems worse.  It is hard to let things go but I've found that it is possible to put them in a box & up on a shelf until I feel up to talking about it.  That also gives me time to meditate on it & see if it is really something that I need to address.  I have been surprised at the number of things I just don't bother with.  There are problems, of course, that have to be address right now when if you are in the middle of the "flare of the year".  But still just try to remain calm, or calmer, so you can think.  Emotions seem to block our ability to reason & think straight.  I hope things will get better for you & you will find some peace & some happiness as well.  Many warm & gentle hugs, Denise

 I have:  Fibromyalgia, CFS, Holt-Oram Syndrome, nasal allergies, depression, TMJ

Meds: Ibuprofen 600mg every 4-6 hours, Cyclobenzaprine 10 mg, Simvastatin 20mg, Citaloram 20mg Melatonin 5mg Sublingual, B12 sublingual, B Complex, Folic Acid, Omega 3

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   Posted 1/2/2009 2:44 PM (GMT -7)   
I'm sorry you are going through this.  I think Marlee is right.  The stress of the relationship is making your pain greater.  Once you get that straightened around you should feel better pain-wise.
Meanwhile come here and vent. That does help a lot, too.  We've all had those times in our lives and it definitely is not fun.  I'll keep you in my prayers.
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   Posted 1/3/2009 3:31 PM (GMT -7)   
THANK YOU ALL So Much! M & I are Trying to Work things Out,Neither of Us Wants to Lose the Other. She appologized for Everything & Took Care Of Me All day yesterday and I Apologuzed to her. A bit rocky Now & Then But Getting Better! YOU ALL HELPED ME SO VERY MUCH!!!! Im Praying for A Happy,Safe,Painfree 2009 For All Of You. I Know I Would`nt have made it through without your Encoragement,Generosty,Caring & Understanding & Especally SUPPORT. Your All Very SPECIAL People Who Come Together To Help & PRAY For Others. THANK YOU ALL,THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH! The Pains getting under Controll & the Colds A Bit Better. Hope Everyone of You Has A "Funtastic",Painfree Sunday!!!! PEACE & FRIENDSHIP. Purple2

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   Posted 1/3/2009 3:40 PM (GMT -7)   
I know how much it hurts, inside and out. Take some deep breaths and rest.
There's always a tomorrow and today is what it is.
Take care,
Fibormyalgia, 4x Lyme Disease Survivor, Depression, Anxiety Disorder, Dyslexia, 2 Lumbar Disk Herniations, Allergies, Heart Disease, Bi-lateral Carpel Tunnel.  (Still being tested for other disorders/or whatevers).

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   Posted 1/4/2009 3:41 PM (GMT -7)   
Good Afternoon All, Today`s Been A Bit Rocky Relationship Wise So M`s Taking A Much Needed Rest. And Im Watching TV And Getting on the Computer. YEAH! Well the Pains intensafying and Im Im Having Troble Breathing So Im Now on Oxogen Hoping it Eliviates the Breating Diffecuties Not Much so far But Im Optamistic,Trying to be Anyway. A New Pain - My Legs & Ankles are Throbbing,I used to Have Swelling in my ankles. I`ve been on Oxogen almost a Yr. But No One`s Sure Why. One Dr. (Respatory Dr.) said the MS is causing Breathing problems,My Chocking on Nothing,ect... My Nero. said No it`s Causing the Chocking But NOT the Respatory Problems. AAARRRGGG!!! Dr.`s Make me Crazy. Anyway I`ve Managed to get Out Of the Depession that was Starting,Largly Due to the Comfort Of Having all of you There For Me. Your ALL SO SPECIAL,CARING,GENEROUS & WONDERFUL. THANKS Again,Im Going to Rest a While after I visit the other sites Im On. PEACE & FRIENDSHIP.Got A NEW CALENDER Very Cute Mini Calender Called "Little Gifts Of Kindness"-365 Daily Thoughts & Inspirations. This is Todays ~ ""psst-Kindness IS COOL-Pass It On" From a Penguin. Soppy but Insprational & Sweet! Take Care,Be Well. LIVE,LOVE & LAUGH Everyday No Matter What,It Helps.,Along with Wonderful People Like You. Purple2
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