Hi Baloo and Fireandice and welcome. I'm sorry your both going through this with your children but don't blame yourselves. I'm sure your both being the best moms you can be. I get very upset with fibro too when I can't be there for my loved ones the way I think I should be but none of us asked for this DD.
We do have some teens on the forum if your children would like to come on and talk to them. Read the fibro 101 thread, second on first page, it contains lots of great info.
luv and hugs
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