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Date Joined Apr 2009
Total Posts : 16
   Posted 4/22/2009 4:05 PM (GMT -7)   
 Hi everyone,
my name is Lulu... i was diagnosed with fibromygia a year and a half ago. I'm 27 years old and have been searching for the reason for all this pain since i was 17 years old- i'm very upset i don't know how i'm gonna live like this forever- by chance i found this website. i'm hoping to get the support i need from people i don't know because nobody really understands what it's like. i'm depressed- overweight after being hospitalized for FMS AND stoped taking the 20 different meds i was on because they make me throw up- i have a tendency to puke when i'm in pain and nervous. i'm looking into different ways of handling the pain and the spasms- not to mention the anxiety that i have when i'm planning to do something for the  day. i have other health problems such as arthritis, a narrowing disc on my spine, cysts on my spinal cord, depression , anxiety, and drug addiction. i need to know what you guys do to feel better.. i'm totally lost.......................i dont know when to heat or when to ice-- should i keep doing physical therapy.............should i be on meds- do you guys vomit too? does it get better- how should i be sleeping/ sitting.... ect sooo many questions.... i dont know where to start- i'm scared - in pain and nauseated- please help me rolleyes please.

Regular Member

Date Joined Jan 2009
Total Posts : 43
   Posted 4/22/2009 4:22 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Lulu.  Welcome.  I am very new myself to this site, but have found a world of loving, caring, people just like you and me that do know how we feel.  This site will lift your spirits and help you learn coping strategies to get through tough times, or just let you cry your heart out and heal little by little.
I hope to hear more from you, and encourage you to come often.
Gentle hugs.  Jules smurf

New Member

Date Joined Apr 2009
Total Posts : 16
   Posted 4/22/2009 4:24 PM (GMT -7)   
thank u........

Regular Member

Date Joined Jul 2008
Total Posts : 408
   Posted 4/22/2009 5:29 PM (GMT -7)   
Welcome to our family!  You have come to the right place for support and answers.  I credit this family for how I'm feeling today.  I still hurt and have fatigue but my overall take on things is more positive.  I know there is someone to listen when I'm having a bad day and someone to give me advice when I don't know what to do.  We are all in this together so stick with us and I'm sure things will start feeling a little better for you also.

Fibromyalgia, Irritable Bowel Syndrome, Restless Leg Syndrome, Migraines
42 year old proud mom of three daughters

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Date Joined Apr 2005
Total Posts : 17557
   Posted 4/23/2009 11:39 AM (GMT -7)   
Be sure to check out the welcome thread I wrote for you and the other newbies.  I tried to address your questions there.  Welcome!
Forum Moderator/ Fibromyalgia
Fibromyalgia, Crohn's Disease, Ostomy, Diabetes, Autoimmune Inner Ear Disease, Osteoporosis
God does not give us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.    2 Timothy 1:7

Veteran Member

Date Joined Jun 2008
Total Posts : 726
   Posted 4/23/2009 12:10 PM (GMT -7)   

Hi Lulu, it is nice to meet you & I hope you can find some relief here & answers to your questions.  I remember when I was first dx'd in 2004 & how scared & confused I was.  Yes, all your feelings are normal for what you are dealing with.  This illness will affect you in many different ways & right now you are scared & unsure.  Please come to this forum & ask questions, all you need to ask, read all you can on the subject of Fibro.  Check out the Fibro 101 thread, the second one down, there is an immense amount of info there.  Also, while you are in that thread read the "spoon theory".  It will help alot with pacing & understanding the need to pace yourself.  We all take different meds & are using different types of therapy.  If the Physical Therapy is helping then by all means keep going, if you are using all your energy at therapy & have none left for other things or if it puts you into a flare then talk it over with your Doctor, therapy may not be for you.  We have all had to travel the road of finding what works for each of us.  For me, I use Ibuprofen 600 every 5 or 6 hours & Tylenol for pain, I use alot of supplements like B complex, B12, & Vit D3.  I use Melatonin for sleep along with a muscle relaxer.  Many have found great relief with Malic Acid & Magnesium.

I hope you find your answers & like I said never feel shy about asking questions, we have all been there & have all had to deal with learning about this DD.  The emotional part is as important to address as the physical.  You will mourn your old life but be aware you will have a new life & it can be very enjoyable, just different. 

Welcome to the forum & many soft hugs, Denise


 I have:  Fibromyalgia, ME/CFS, Holt-Oram Syndrome, nasal allergies, food allergies, depression, TMJ, anxiety  Married to a wonderful supportive husband & between us we have 4 children & 7 grandchildren As apples of gold in silver carvings is a word spoken at the right time for it.    Prov. 25:11

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