Yipee, safe at last.

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   Posted 7/8/2009 12:50 AM (GMT -7)   
Hello all.
I haven't posted for a while because of the problems with ex and my family but:  Yipee, hallaluyah, zippadeedoodah(spelling) Yahoo, we are now in our new home, safe and  snug.
It has been a very long and very very stressful road, my ex is still texting my mobile but I don't reply, neither he nor my family know where we are or have any contact details.
We love the house, it's large, light and airy, I managed to get the carpets laid the day before we moved in and my friend managed to paint all that needed to be done for them to be laid, he is now doing the rest of the house.
I am so very lucky to be safe in our own home and I count my blessings every day, I'm absolutely exhausted and hurt like mad but it's worth it.  I am still a little afraid because my ex has been to all my old nieghbors trying to find me but I didn't tell them where we were going, so all is well.
My youngest had an operation to remove a ganglion from his hand yesterday, he was supposed to be in theatre for 30-40 minutes, he was there for 2hrs, boy was I glad when he came back up. smhair
I would like to say a huge thank you to all of you for your support, i'm so very grateful, I hope you are all well

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   Posted 7/8/2009 3:57 AM (GMT -7)   
Glad you are safe and happy.
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   Posted 7/8/2009 6:08 AM (GMT -7)   
Kudos for making your life safer and taking charge of your family/ life! It takes a strong woman to do what you just did.
Make sure you save some time to decompress and recover from all the hard work that you have just done! Building in breaks and time to rest will ensure that you dont crash later on!

Be proud of yourself,
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   Posted 7/8/2009 7:04 AM (GMT -7)   
Glad you are safe. Take care of yourself, now, and enjoy a more peaceful life.
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   Posted 7/8/2009 7:50 AM (GMT -7)   
Sharon I'm so glad you feel safe and happy!!!
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   Posted 7/8/2009 8:02 AM (GMT -7)   
Sharon, it has been a difficult road for you but now it's time for your payoff!  I'm so glad you like your new home.  Now you can relax and the pain should ease some.  Take care!
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   Posted 7/8/2009 8:44 PM (GMT -7)   
I am very happy for you. I know what it feels like when you home is not safe. Good for you!


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   Posted 7/8/2009 8:55 PM (GMT -7)   

That is wonderful news. I am so happy to hear that you and your family is safe now. Enjoy your new home-it sounds beautiful!
love and hugs

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   Posted 7/8/2009 9:05 PM (GMT -7)   
Wonderful to hear from you and that you are safe. I'm sure you've done all of the 'legal' stuff to protect yourself...restraining orders and all. Sure would be nice if they'd nab that ex and give him some free room and board in the 'House of Many Doors"...lol

Put your worries behind you and enjoy every minute of your new life. You are very Blessed!
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   Posted 7/8/2009 11:03 PM (GMT -7)   
Glad to know you are safe and happy. Is he persistent to find you? Maybe a new cell phone is in order and you can get a po box and send mail to a friend's house if you want to contact family.
Your house sounds nice. Bright and airy and new carpet and paint are all nice touches.
Take care,
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