Thank you everyone for all your input and info.
I have not had one coughing spell since leaving church last Sunday. I will see how this Sunday goes and I will pay attention to who is sitting around me. From all your responses I does seem this could be caused by someone's perfume and I am worried it could possible get worse... just as my reaction to meds at the dentist seem to become more intense each time.
I wouldn't stop going to church, hopefully changing where I sit for now will help. However, I will not be attempting to serve wine for a while... it's a little uncomfortable standing up there trying to hold back coughing while it just makes it worse.
For now I am off to bed, without a head ache... whoo hoo. Last night I fought a migraine and didn't sleep much at all... I have high hopes for rest tonight!
Wishing you all sweet dreams and much rest tonight!! ~T