Hi and I hope you are feeling well. I can admit that some days I just exist basically but I never stay in bed. I might sit on the couch more than usual. I usually get up and piddle around and take breaks----sitting on the couch LOL. The more I don't move (at least a little) the more I hurt.
My hubby is self employeed also and many days I have to go into the office to ship items and take care of invoicing. Do I want to go??? heck no! He is a workaholic and can not accept that I just do not have the stamina that I did even 4 years ago.
So to keep the peace I run the sweeper, cook dinner everyday and keep up with the laundry. I try really hard to do the dishes after dinner as he hates dishes in the sink but sometimes I just can't do it.
You said you were lonely for the day and I am sorry for that. Personally I love it when mine finds his own things to do......If not he finds things for me to do and paperwork at 8:00 or later is not my idea of anytrhing I want to do, by then I am finished......heck by 6:00 I am done for the day LOL. Mine thinks I should be doing the running around with him and I honestly don't want to, thankfully he is giving up bugging me to go with him. I can sit on the couch which is more comfy than sitting in the car.
Odd thing is that today my legs are aching like crazy, almost like I walked 5 miles and that is unusual for me. It is not ususlly my legs all day, just in the morning. hmmm always something.
Oh I forgot to welcome you.....Welcome!!! BTW, some of us put our general area in our signature as mine is below.
~*~*~*~*Denise from Pittsburgh*~*~*~*~*
Hysterectomy, appendectomy, depression, anxiety, neck problems (not a surgical fix), Fibro, high BP, high cholesterol
Long lasting remnants (side effects) from Hepatitis C and it's treatment. The good thing is that I cleared the live virus in 2008.