I do agree, it is very frustrating when people do not believe you especially those that are close to you! My husband says that he understands but I really do not think that he does he gets irittaed with me over things that are not my fault at all. Like when I forget where i have put something or cannot recall a conversation that we had a week back. And when I have pain he acts like he just does not want to hear it. Sometimes when I have to have a nap inthe afternoon with our 2 year old son, I think that he really thinks that I am just lazy. It is very frustrating! I was in such good helth when I met my husband at 19 years old know after two kids adn 6 years later i feel helpless and foggy, and fat, and in pain. Sometimes I just want to give up. If it was just the pain I would take it, but the fog really gets to me, walking around everyday like I am on auto pilot ugghh. I just wish that people who mock us or think that we are lazy could have Fibro for one day so that they could really see what we have to go thourgh just to do normal everyday tasks.