I'm so sorry for your pain...welcome to the fibro family.
Finding the right doctor and getting an accurate diagnosis is not always easy...it took me years. The search usually begins with our primary care doctor. If they don't run the appropriate diagnostic tests you don't get a referal to a specialist who can help.
I found out the more proactive I was it was easier to develop a relationship with my docs....they actually started listening to me. It sounds as if you are educating yourself about your symptoms and that is great. I try to ask my doctor plenty of questions concerning certain symptoms, if he can't answer them he provides a referral to a specialist...I then get the appropriate tests to see what is going on.
If you are being ignored it is time to look for a new doc. It is important to have a doc and patient relationship built on mutual respect.
Wishing you the best...there are good doctors out there. Good doctors do have time to listen to your concerns and will not tell you it is all in your head.
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