ubby HATES housework with a passion, and was raised by a father who taught him "housework is woman's work"...so he rarely lifts a finger to help
BUT, he is getting better, and has started cooking more , but won't do dishes very often..except for the other day when we were almost out of propane for hot water..so dishes had not been done in 4 days!!! THen when it got delivered, he did 3 loads .. so he is getting better, but not quite there yet.
It has been a chore to convince him that if I didn't have to do all this housework, I would have more energy for "wifely" duties..hahahaha, but is starting to undrstand that too!
And our daughter (11) is starting to understand that mommy just can't do all she used to..so she has been pitching in more too, and that is nice! She knows on days I work to start running me a hot tub at 5:45, so when I get home at 6, I can get in.. then she comes in to read to me and tell me about her day..
She is soo funny!
Just not really sure how to handle this weekend , traditionally Easter is at our house.. HUGE kickball game, and (luckily for me) a covered dish dinner..so all I do is a roaster of pulled pork bbq..and everyone else fills in with other food. BUT, this year some out of town family has decided to come and I am super excited..but they are ALL staying wth me!
SO I am pretty nervous on how this will all go...but I have faith it will go smoothly, and that the other 40 people at my house will help a lot..
hypothyroidism for 20+ years
total colectomy with ileo rectal anastomosis 1/12
newly diagnosed with fibromyalgia
Doc~ "you don't understand, and ostomy bag is life altering"
Me~ "NO, you don't understand, an ostomy bag is a bag of crap you deal with. Life altering is not being alive to be with my family"