Posted 6/8/2014 3:00 PM (GMT -6)
My BF gets like this periodically, and then I need to have a talk with him and remind him. Usually this happens during exercise of some kind, biking or walking. I finally have got him to stop commenting on my pokiness when biking.
When things have cooled off, have a talk. Sorry I can't keep up with you, but I need to take my time and pace myself. I had a very hard time on the trip, and this is why. It was not your fault, and I wish it were different, but it's not. When you are angry at me for what i cannot help, it makes it much worse because then my muscles clench more. Etc, etc.
It is hard on them at times, since they can't feel or see the problem, and they cannot fix it.