What he feels he deserves and what he actually deserves/ gets are two different things. Stand your ground and get what you deserve. Good on you for contacting a lawyer, don't let him (the soon to be ex) walk all over you. What a jerk. I'm with others and say he did you a favor, in a really poor way.
I hope your family/parents are supportive and will continue to be as you go through this. As others said it's time to just be. You have a lot of stress on you right now, and it's going to take some rest and just allowing it all to happen to get through it without making all of your health issues worse.
We are all here for you as best we can be. Know you are not alone.
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