Son mentally ill

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Acheybody
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   Posted 12/2/2017 8:46 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi guys. Once again I've been gone forever. Not by choice.

It's been awful around here for awhile now. The last month has done a real job on us (and of course, on my body. I have serious pains in places I never did before.)

Our son is delusional, and it's just heartbreaking. He finally agreed tonight to see a doctor...for anxiety. Hallelujah!! He's been staying with us for a month. This had been building up for 8 months (well, years really) but it came to a head when he threatened suicide and I called 911.

I know you all can understand how hard it is to see your child suffer. Even when they're adults (our son is 35.)

I sure hope everyone's doing well, considering you're all suffering with Fibro!

Thanks for being there.

Debbie
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Sherrine
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   Posted 12/3/2017 6:58 AM (GMT -7)   
I'm sorry to hear about your son. But under proper care and medication, he should be fine. I'm glad he is willing to get the help he needs.

My husband suffered from depression. We didn't know what the problem was at the time because depression and antidepressants weren't talked about back then. He also became suicidal but didn't carry through because he knew I wouldn't get his insurance policy if he did! We got the help he needed shortly after, he was put on medication, and he finally got his happiness back. He was kept on the medication as long as he lived.

He had a chemical imbalance and the older he got, the more depressed he became. He was an extremely successful person but yet called himself a louser. But the medication changed all of that so take heart! I think your son will be fine. He has taken the most important step...seeking help

You and your family will be in my prayers.

Sherrine

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Luvzminis
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   Posted 12/4/2017 10:27 AM (GMT -7)   
Hi Debbie: So very sorry you're dealing with so much--wow! Are you able to take a break and get out of the house and do something enjoyable occasionally? Could a relative or someone from your church help you out once in a while?

I'm so glad your son agreed to see a doctor---what an important first step! Best wishes to your and your family and I will pray for all of you. Hope you keep us posted and hope things look brighter soon.

God bless and take care. People don't always post here, but I'm sure there are many other people here who also care and wish you the best.
"Pray, hope, and don't worry."

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Ljm2014
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   Posted 12/4/2017 8:35 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Debbie,

Glad he agreed to get help..yes, nothing more stressful than when our kids suffer

Try to take some , you, moments

Love and prayers

Lj

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   Posted 12/4/2017 9:39 PM (GMT -7)   
Debbie, so glad your son has agreed to see a doctor. I have a son with problems but he is older than your son and thinks he doesn't have a problem. It is very upsetting to me and I do not know what to do. I pray that he gets help
Puppylover
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Acheybody
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   Posted 12/10/2017 11:04 PM (GMT -7)   
Thank you so much, Sherrine, Luvz, and Puppylover, for taking the time to answer. It really means a lot!

Well, we still don't know what's been causing all the problems. Puppylover, just like your son, he doesn't think he needs mental help (sorry you're going through this too. It's awful!) He says he's got "physical anxiety," and since he got my PA to write him meds for depression and anxiety, he won't see a psychiatrist or therapist of any kind. My husband and I both feel that he's doing marginally better, not quite as anxious, starting to communicate just a tiny bit (with us only. He almost never leaves the house.)

He desperately needs to level with someone about his delusions, but he refuses. Since we called 911 a month ago, when he said he was going to shoot himself ("today-tomorrow-next day") he won't discuss them with us, either. He stated that "they" were going to kill him for some awful transgression against God...nothing he did in the actual world, though. He also said songs on the radio were sending messages to him personally sad So - Schizophrenia? Bipolar? Or, best-case scenario, just a psychotic episode?

When he was in the short-term care facility for 8 days the psychiatrist there started him on an anti-psychotic med. At first he wouldn't take them, but now he is, saying they may work a little. But he's not making the connection as to why they would make him feel better...

I'm imploding again...started writing this too late. Sleep tight, everyone!

Debbie
Moderator, Fibromyalgia Forum

Fibromyalgia, degenerative disc disease, discectomy L4-L5 - (w/lots of Sciatic Nerve damage), frozen shoulder, Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, IBS, migraine, dizziness (mostly from visual stimuli), elevated liver enzymes, tachycardia, hearing loss (probably Menieres).

Post Edited (Acheybody) : 12/11/2017 12:23:02 AM (GMT-7)


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   Posted 12/15/2017 3:30 PM (GMT -7)   
My thoughts for you.
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