Thank You, Honesty is always the best policy even if it hurts! I do want to say you put it in a different perspective for me! I am thrilled with the fact my son is in love and that he has found his princess. I do know we can be good friends as she acts just like my daughter. I know there is immaturity on her part but, we all grow up sometime. I'm sure they will be just fine! Wil does vent to me and tells me more than maybe I should know, and to save face I keep my mouth shut unless they want my advice and they have to ask also, I have stepped back off of situations letting them get through it on thier own. My father-in-law has a term TOUGH LOVE and as a mother we all have come across that alot! My concern is Wil tells me how tired he is and about his weight loss and now he's told me he is coughing up alot of flim/bile, his hand are very shaky and peeling along with they are yellow. My son doesn't want to scare Anna so he down plays his illness. I see the signs and this is where he's coming into denial as he cannot keep up with her and it's wearing on him health wise. I feel that our talk with them went very well as we all got alot out on the table. How do I make her aware that he is not well? She has been to the Dr.s and Transplant Coordinators with us so she can get more involved. Even Dr. told them both of the long road ahead. She is not getting it! She's quit her job so she can spend more time with him but, He's working so they are not spending time together anyway. Her lodgic is he will take care of me now and I'll take care of him when he gets sick! Thing is I have been supporting Wil and most of his bills for 8 months I cannot afford to support both of them and her bills as well. Priorities need to come first. Wil's health is my first priority! Maybe I'm not getting it?
Thanks for listening! Huggs and smooches