Thankyou all who left me a message, i have taken the pain patches off my mother at 11am this morning so she could wake up, and you are right even though sleepy she can hear us and occasionally will open her eyes for a few seconds listen and answer in a blurred voice so she still very aware.
i am staying at my mums and awake at 2.30am in the kitchen while she is sleeping in the living room with my sister in law next to her, in case she wants to go toilet (using a commode), she know has her mouth open and we are feeding her bits of water through a syringe and must speak loudly to her for her to swallow, which she was doing fine in the daytime, but way to drowsy now for even to do that.
She has been sleeping on her back for a few days now as she is in way to much pain to turn either left or right.
it is unbelievable that she was only sitting besides me where i am on my laptop now a few days ago talking, laughing and now she has not left her bed which my brother bought downstairs in the living room, unaware of whats happening.
The problem is i am so helpless in doing anything for her, we all are.
we get so busy in our lives and spend less time with the ones we love untill its to late, the stories they told of years gone by, poems they new, and the GOLDEN advice they readily give..........always concerned with their childrens worries and looking after the grandchildren, whom love my mother more than they love me(which is a lovely thing), my mum was always slipping all the grandchildren money or buying them presents.
I only pray that she comes back to us cured and well, or departs with no pain whatsoever..........................i have become very upset and tearsome now so i will end and keep you posted, please for whoever reads this please remember her in your prayers.