Sue, welcome to the forum. It's really remarkable that your dad has done so well and lived so long with liver disease.
You are in a difficult situation. Are there any inpatient hospices in his town or nearby? That might be an answer for him and an alternative to a NH. I don't see how his wife would have the power to take him off meds if he is in a NH. That is a doctor/nursing decision. However, with you living out of the area, you do not have much control over the situation. You might consider calling the Area Council on Aging in your dad's area and ask to speak to a social worker. See what they recommend.
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