Rick...I will also get some vitamin B and see if it helps my wife, thanks for the suggestion.
DDmom....... I also have a problem with my in-laws. My wife's family has good intentions, but tend to be a little too helpful. She has two older sisters (who both live a few hrs from us) that believe spending an entire weekend with my wife helps her. They like to make weekend visits, and most always come on a friday evening when she has not had a good week. They just don't understand how bad she feels, and encourage her to go with them visiting other relatives, shopping, etc over the weekend. She will force herself go regardless of how she feels, however after they return home on Sunday, I have to deal with her illness for the next week, while trying to work full-time. They are a very close-knit family and I just can't tactfully tell them not to visit without causing problems. She also has a daughter who lives out of town that visits us with her family (one child and usually a dog) about once a month. Both sisters and daughter cook, clean, and are really wonderful guests, but none of them understand what a drain it puts on my wife when they spend a weekend with her. She loves for them to visit, however she also knows what a toll it takes on her energy level for the up-comming week. I know there is absolutely nothing I can say or do without hurting someone's feelings, so I just have to keep my mouth shut and deal with it the best I can. I am so glad that I have found this forum, for without it, I have no one to vent to.
I hope everyone has a great week....