They did call him from UCSD and took his information and said they would be calling him back for an appointment. Well my older daughter helps me out alot, she helps with doctor appts and such. He also has a daughter and I just had a serious chat with her in regards to me needing help. I request time at work for his appt but come on! Believe it or not he had 13 brothers and sisters and maybe a couple call him to see how he is, but no one volunteers help. Its crazy, but hey thats another issue!
In regards to it being hard on both of us, believe me I am hanging in there.