I don't think it would be Connie as I have a few more occasions coming up where I'm going to have to face it and I feel that I need to do it but not right now. We have family who live in Australia and they are coming back to Ireland, mum is expecting me to be there too, we aren't like Ziffler's family as we are close and we talk all the time. Also my mum and dad are almost 40 years married and there will be a get together then too. I can't not go. I'm going to have to face it at some point within the next few months, seriously.
Mama lama and Connie if there was no alcohol at my wedding most of my aunts and uncles would make their excuses and leave early, I wouldn't give a hoot to be honest but my mum is doing a lot of the preparation and it would upset her. I was intending on having a small wedding but my fiancé wants a big party so we compromised and I got the small ceremony and intimate dinner and he got the big party. This was booked around the time I gave up alcohol to lose weight and although he loves me I can tell he still wants his big day. When my brother got married I stayed sober because I was trying to not make a fool of myself lol and I found it easier as the day went on but having said that either I didn't have an issue or I hadnt realised I had an issue with alcohol at that point so that could have been the reason why I don't know. The weird thing was I fell over stone cold sober and ripped my dress!
Anyway I'm going to just not think about
any of it for now and look forward to the baby coming
David my fiancé is just like you, he doesn't have an addictive personality whatsoever. He does smoke but he can go for a long time without cigarettes, he doesn't gamble and he very very rarely drinks like I said. I wish I was like that and I am strong willed in other ways I just hope I can apply that to this.