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Scared and sad
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Posted 5/9/2014 6:53 AM (GMT -7)
I am not sure if this is where I post about alcoholic cirrhosis. I have been quite sad and scared and looking for some support to help get through and have someone to talk to. I do have some questions, can you let me know if this is the correct place to post, as I am new to the forum. Thank you.
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Posted 5/9/2014 7:14 AM (GMT -7)
I will give you a bit of a background, it is very hard for me to talk about. My dad has had liver problems for about 8 years now, he continued to drink even after he had a massive bleed out 2 years ago due to his esophagus. He got a blood transfusion and in time felt a bit better, then drank beer for 2 years after that. Jan 31, 2014 was his last drink, he has gone down hill since Xmas. First ambulance trip, low oxygen level 70%. Within a month after that HE episode, hepatic coma for about 2 days they gave him lactalose by enema and he came to(which has been the worst part of cirrhosis). May 4 at 5 am rushed by ambulance , it was a traumatic experience as the 1 st ambulance would not take him due to being a bit combative, they left and 30 mins later he almost died in front of me, my mom and my sister. 2nd ambulance arrived and took him so fast out of the house, he was grey, his jaw dropped and wasn't responding at all. They almost lost him 4 times in the ambulance. He was in a hepatic coma from Sunday morning 5 am until Monday night started coming out of the coma. He was released yesterday and at home now. Very weak, he looks like a skeleton and has a hard time walking. He had a liver specialist appt last week ...he has to wait until July 3 to go back for evaluation and possibly be listed. He told my mom yesterday the doctor gave him a year to live, what do we expect to happen, I'm scared for us and my mom is about 30 mins away out of town with him alone.
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Posted 5/9/2014 7:15 AM (GMT -7)
Hi Scared, My husband also has cirrhosis, and was diagnosed in 2005 with a routine physical when he was having some odd fatigue. His cirrhosis was caused from the Hep C virus. Other than the odd fatigue, he had no symptoms.

We have some good people here with alcoholic cirrhosis who are sober and doing life! Can you tell us more about your Dad's history and his status at this time? Has you Dad quit drinking? Big Hugs
themiz

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Posted 5/9/2014 7:19 AM (GMT -7)
Hi Themiz, thank you for your reply. I posted some above. But his blood work on Sunday was. Bilirubin 50, creatinine 300, INR 2.0. He is 56 years old. They did bloodwork yesterday I know it did improve since Sunday, since they released him, but I wasn't given the updated bloodwork numbers as my mom picked him up at the out of town hospital.
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Posted 5/9/2014 7:21 AM (GMT -7)
I'm sorry to hear about your husband Themiz, I hope he is doing better.
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Posted 5/9/2014 7:27 AM (GMT -7)
It looks like we were posting at the same time. Thanks for more info. ESLD is the same for most everyone with it. My husband also has HE, and had a seizure from HE with a 3 day hospital stay. I am alone with my husband, and have been for a long time. We moved last year to be near a transplant center.

If your Dad is not on Xifaxan and Lactulose, then he is not getting the best results to combat the HE. As you saw, they enema Lactulose for those in coma...so increasing it when he starts drifting is vital to keeping him from having the worst episodes. One other thing. What other meds is your Dad taking? If he takes anything in the benzo category, Ambian, or pain meds, he will have a difficult time keeping HE away. Let me know more on the meds and lets take a look.

I am so glad your Dad quit drinking. What transplant center are you looking at? You can see from themister's info below, we are in AZ at Mayo Clinic. What is he doing now to get the sobriety documented? He must have it documented!! Big Hugs,
themiz

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Eradicated Hep C geno 3a SVR July 2012-- TIPS, HE, January 2013
Transplant list, Mayo AZ- July 11, 2013 MELD 14

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Posted 5/9/2014 7:36 AM (GMT -7)
I will find out from my mom what meds he is on, I do know he is on vitamins and other pills but I will find out. He is not on any pain medication, his body could not handle that right now I don't think. We are in canada, winnipeg, mb. They do not do transplants here, he would have to go to Toronto if he was listed. Also, he cannot drink, he is too weak and I think he finally realized what alcohol can do to your body, he has been an alcoholic for about 30 years, something we never talked to him about because he would get mad, until now. He is on lactulose, and he had the HE episode we think because when he went to his liver appt last week, he refused anyone to go with him, then the next day got 9 litres of fluid drained from his stomach, we think he missed 2 days of lactulose, we will make sure that never happens again, he hates lactalose but we tell him that's the only thing keeping him alive. I'm not sure about the documentation, the liver specialist said he has to wait until July 3 to come back and see him, he told him he wanted him to think about quitting drinking. He can't drink, he can hardly pick up his glass of water to drink it. He is a very stubborn man, and insists he try things on his own, but we want to help him get to appointments so this does not happen again.
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Posted 5/9/2014 7:39 AM (GMT -7)
The worst part and most traumatic part of everything was last Saturday night when he almost passed in front of us, and the emergency team left us alone !!! I have put a complaint in to the ambulance supervisor he is doing an investigation. I don't do well with watching him deteriorate but my mom needed us there and it has been very traumatic to us all.
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Posted 5/9/2014 8:09 AM (GMT -7)
I know his bloodwork isn't good at all, I am surprised they gave him 1 year to live....when my mom told me that yesterday, I was shocked, as I thought it would be weeks or months. I don't want him to suffer. Strongest person I've ever met, not one complaint out of him, but I know he is suffering.
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Posted 5/9/2014 8:27 AM (GMT -7)
Hi S&S - and Welcome to HW/Hepatitis! Yes, you are posting in the right place - it says 'Hepatitis' forum, but it's for all types of liver disease. I'm so sorry about your Dad. I know how devastatingly difficult this must be for you. But you have come to the right place to ask questions, vent, cry, whatever you need to do. And please keep checking back if you don't see any responses - some days and times are slower than others.

You say that your Dad had his last drink on Jan. 31st - that's a good thing - he will probably have to have documented sobriety for 6 months to be eligible for a potential transplant, because he is such a 'recent' drinker. Now about his recent labs, I think you may have meant 3.0 for his Creatinine - the 'normal' range usually tops out at 1.1. Taking those 3 results, his MELD is about a 39. The MELD score is a way to determine how sick the liver is and is used as a basis for transplant listing. Depending on the center, transplants are performed with minimum MELD scores from the 20s-30s. The evaluation process varies between transplant centers, but is quite involved - blood work, CT scans, MRIs, Ultrasounds, x-rays, EKGs, etc.

Your Dad is very ill, no doubt about it - but we have members here who have literally been at death's door and fought their way back. And that is the key - the will to fight and fight hard! I can't imagine how hard last Saturday must have been - my heart goes out to you. And you are right about the H.E. - it is a horrible thing to witness (and to have). Keep up the Lactulose no matter how much he complains!

Well I just wanted to stop by and Welcome you. This is a wonderful place full of caring, knowledgeable folks - so please hang around. (Try to) have a peaceful day.
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Posted 5/9/2014 8:33 AM (GMT -7)
Scared,

I'm sorry to hear that your dad is in such bad shape.

Alcoholic liver disease is a tough one.

All the symptoms you describe are pretty much what we see with end stage liver disease.

Whether he will have enough time to prepare for transplant is uncertain. He needs to be sober likely to stay sober, and not have cancer over 5 cm in his liver. And alive.

Some with sobriety regain some strength. If Difficult pops in today he can tell you how he has made it many years, with a bum liver.

Right now things look bad.

You need to pray for the best and prepare for the worst. Sorry to say it. Dad may be too far down this patb.

Does Your Mom Have power of attorney, Medical proxy, a DNR, and will. Are tgere, rdlatives, who should come to see him?

I am so frank about all this because we've been to this point with my partner. All those symptoms, argumentive, combative, bleeding, hospitas visits, etc etc. HE, skinny, etc. His kidneys failed. We gathered the family. Buf. He rallied. Got sobet. Qualified for a transplant before his cancer got too large. And is still with us. 64 years young. And we live him better sober.

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Posted 5/9/2014 9:00 AM (GMT -7)
Scared, Welcome to the forum. I survived some pretty rough bouts with alcoholic induced liver disease. I have been in Kidney failure, Coma, HE and my liver is hanging on by a thread (Thick thread smilewinkgrin), They estimate I have roughly 15% function but I feel good pretty much all the time. Good to know he stopped drinking but he has to focus on sobriety requirements. Here in the US we are required to provide six months of consecutive, documented sobriety. That may differ in Canada, Don't know.

He needs to be getting protein right now so get him some form of protein/nutrient based drinks. No salt and plenty of veggies. No red meat. Chicken and Fish are easier on the digestive process. Get him to some form of AA or therapy for addiction documentation. Lactulose and Xifaxin should taper or knock out HE problems so get him prescriptions for both. No tylenol or other meds without doctors approval. No alcohol, Glad he quit by the way. Make sure he's committed to stay that way.

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Posted 5/9/2014 10:43 AM (GMT -7)
Oh my thank you so much! I haven't talked to anyone that has gone through this and this has helped me a lot already. In canada, the same goes, 6 months sobriety. I believe we follow what your healthcare is in the US. My mom has power of at tourney, he signed DNR after 1st hepatic coma. We have that. He asked yesterday to see my son, he is 12 years old, we are going there tomorrow, they have 7 acres of land and my dad asked if my son can do some yard work and he would pay him. Believe me this is not like my dad to ask such a request, he Always does everything on his own. I think he just wants to see my son. It has been incredibly difficult on my mom, as she is working full time and caring for him. She said she doesn't want to go off work too early as compassionate caregiver we are paid 55 % of our income in canada to care for our loved ones. We don't know when she should go off work. And how could a Liver doctor say he has a year left with a MELD score so high.? I want to thank everyone for helping me. I will tell you my dad has seen deaths door a few times and he is a very strong person. It's hard to watch someone you love wither away.

And I will add, he is my step dad since I was 12 years old, my real father was a heroin addict and my mom left him when I was 6 months old due to his physical abuse. The closest thing I've ever had in my life to a real father is my step dad, whom I do love very much, but years of being an alcoholic and sometimes very grouchy, I'd take that anyday. He wasn't a bad alcoholic, just an alcoholic ....the type that if he doesn't have a beer in his hand, it's not normal.
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Posted 5/9/2014 11:03 AM (GMT -7)
I have a question, when your creatinine level is 3.0. Can this number get better once you are out of the HE coma, or will this number stay the same? I know it has to do with your kidney function and 3.0 isn't good.
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Posted 5/9/2014 11:08 AM (GMT -7)
Ziffle I'm glad your feeling pretty good, it's a horrible thing to go through, do you remember any of your coma , were u in pain, what do you feel like after coming out of the coma? Your help is so much appreciated, I don't want to see him suffer.

Mama lama thank you for helping me. And I have prayed a lot. Me and my mom talked a lot and she knew one day she would be taking care of him due to alcohol disease, it wasn't unexpected, but we also said it wasn't his time last weekend, and we take it one day at a time.
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Posted 5/9/2014 11:28 AM (GMT -7)
I also have another question my mom and I were wondering about. He has mottling around his right side of his stomach and into his back. What is this???? It looks like bruises, my mom said it looks like hickies, it's very weird. The hospital couldn't exactly tell us as they never have esld patients, and they didn't transfer him to a bigger hospital, it is a very small hospital in the country, 30 miles outside of winnipeg city. Does anyone know what this could be, bleeding? Bruising from laying on that side all the time? His liver crying out for help? We have gone through EVERYTHING except stomach bleeding, is this what this could be? Thank you everyone so much.
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Posted 5/9/2014 11:31 AM (GMT -7)
Hi again, S&S! You asked about creatinine. A level of 3.0 is almost 3x the high normal range. I can explain a bit about what it is. Creatinine is a waste product that is filtered through the kidneys, which is then expelled through urine. A high level means that kidney function is impaired - the kidneys aren't able to filter it fast enough, so it begins to accumulate in the body. H.E. is caused by excess ammonia settling in the brain, which then causes the symptoms you see. Creatinine is produced via a metabolite from muscles, creatine and is not a cause of the H.E. coma. Yes, the creatinine level can go down. A low-salt diet, lots of fresh fruits and vegetables - and avoid dehydration and reduce BP. That's about all I remember....hope it helps.
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Posted 5/9/2014 11:34 AM (GMT -7)
Just saw your other question! The 'mottling, hickies' you described are more than likely bruises caused by low platelets, another symptom of ESLD.
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Posted 5/9/2014 11:42 AM (GMT -7)
splash dancer thank you so much. I do think his creatinine level went down after a few days out of the coma, I'm not sure by how much. His bilirubin level is 50, we have seen it as high as 70 at 1st HE coma. This time it was 50. Thank you for taking the time out to help me and all my questions. We have seen it all, the leaking of fluids out of his legs, last year, he has been drained ALOT, but now he is like a skeleton and the fluid only seems to accumulate in his belly. Trouble breathing and he never complains, ever. He was drained 9 litres out of his belly like I said the day before he went into the coma.

Does anyone have any ideas how I can help my mom, me and my sister stayed with her for 4 days when he was in the hospital and we visited him everyday, watching someone in a coma is not fun, I have bad anxiety from it, but I guess that's normal to be upset. I just tried to stay strong because my mom needed us there. My mom is an amazing person, I hope she can handle all this, I love her sooooo dearly.
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Posted 5/9/2014 12:05 PM (GMT -7)
Splash dancer, can you explain to me how you got meld score of 39? Thank you for doing that for me, can you explain, I kind of know how to calculate it, but not 100% sure. Thank you!
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Posted 5/9/2014 12:20 PM (GMT -7)
S&S,

Welcome to the board. I am truly sorry to hear about your situation and having to see your dad go through this. I too am in the same situation with my dad. 10 months ago he ended up in the hospital for a few days after he felt very weak, extreme pain and his legs and belly blew up.

Sadly that was the time he was officially diagnosed with Alcoholic Cirrhosis. It has been a roller coaster to say the least. There are good days and there are bad days, but ultimately we know what the only real option is and that is a transplant. He just recently started taking sobriety classes which we were told would be the final step to a high probability to get on a transplant list. He like your father is always wanting to do everything on his own and doesn't like help. But deep down I think they need that support.

It's sad to say but I have grown closer to my dad now more than ever. He is a great man, and I wish I had spent more time with him instead of being so caught up in my career and everything else that now seems irrelevant. However, that very fact has me determined to stick with him all the way and hopefully get a second chance at a new life with a transplant. Although he is going through good and bad, just the fact that he stopped drinking 10 months ago has made a HUGE difference.

It does sound like your dad is in bad shape but hopefully he can bounce back to a point where he can give himself a chance by doing what he needs.

I know first hand how life changing this is. My prayers are with your family
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Posted 5/9/2014 12:25 PM (GMT -7)
There's a saying and it goes something like....."You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." This is never more true than when dealing with someone you love having a chronic/terminal illness. You sound like a wonderful daughter(?) (sorry, I'm guessing!) and your Dad is very lucky to have you in his corner. He is overall very lucky to have the support he does, in your Mom and you and your sis - many don't.

You asked how you guys can help your Mom. Be there for her. I don't know how close you all live to each other, but take turns spending time with your Dad, running errands for her, even just lending an ear. It's really hard to say when she should take leave from her job. She'll just have to take it one day at a time. But someone does need to check in with Dad. No access to a car as long as he exhibits symptoms of H.E., no access to guns/large knives - H.E. really messes with the brain and can cause sufferers to do/say things they wouldn't normally do (as you've already seen).

One thing I wanted to mention. Is your Dad getting drained at the small hospital you talked about - the one that doesn't have experience dealing with ESLD patients? I'm asking because that is a little worrisome. Are they giving him infusions of Albumin when they do the paracentesis? It is not usually needed if the amount drained is small - but with anything over 5 liters, an infusion of Albumin is needed.

I know what you mean about comas. My fiance was in a coma for 11 days before he died this past Feb. 11th. It was heartbreaking. For 11 days, I talked his ear off - what I would've given to hear him tell me to "shut up, already!" The amazing thing was that although he was totally unresponsive to pain stimulus and commands (he did look at me a few times when I called his name though) - 6 separate times, he returned my kisses - I will treasure that forever!

Hope I answered your questions. Have a peaceful day. :-)
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Posted 5/9/2014 12:32 PM (GMT -7)
Lost son, thank you for your support and kind words. Sometimes we do get so involved in our own lives we forget about who really means the most to us. You are a great son to realize that your dad needs you at this time, I am a very family oriented person ( my grandma instilled this in our family ever since we were young) I am now 41 years old. We have been through everything and if you have any questions, I may be able to help, STOPPING Drinking is #1, as my father didn't until recently. If he did, he would have a good quality of life, I sit back and wonder why he didn't stop, was it due to his anxiety, did he know esld can bring on anxiety really bad. I think he hates his anxiety more than anything. He doesn't seem to be at that point anymore, I think he is past that and focusing on taking his lactulose everyday and trying to eat well. It is very odd to see him do this, for years he wouldn't eat a lot, just drink beer.

Do you have any other supports in your family to help you deal with everything, I have my sister and mom and it does help to have someone there with you.?

I'm so glad your dad quit drinking, my dad has had cirrhosis for many years, but until his muscle wasting, yellowing of the skin, weak legs, HE episodes, he decided to keep drinking. It was the norm for him.

Do you know what your dad's meld score is, I've done so much research and it did help a bit. But, this forum seems to be the best by far!!!!
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Posted 5/9/2014 12:33 PM (GMT -7)
Oops, just saw your question about the MELD score. You take his Bilirubin, Creatinine, and INR and enter it into the UNOS MELD calculator, hit 'Enter' and it gives you his MELD. Here is the link:

MELD Calculator
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Posted 5/9/2014 12:38 PM (GMT -7)
Splash dancer, yes the small hospital that is a concern to me as well, I will talk to my mom about it and make sure he gets the right treatment when being drained. I'm soooooo sorry to hear about your husband, remember all the gooooood times and love you have for one another. You sound like one amazing woman.

That was the hard part for me when he was in a coma I had a hard time going in the room, I was scared. I would pace and stand at the door.
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