Hi to all you wonderful people.
I have learned so much from this forum, i could read a zillion books on this subject and still not get the honest, sympathetic replies I have gotten. I feel so much better and have gotten my DIL to log on to the forum and she too has told me that it is so very helpful.
Everything you have told me is really true. I have distanced myself from my son as much as I can and find that I am sleeping better, feeling more like I want to do things and go places and not worry so much about him. You are right that he is in denial, caustic of tongue, selfish,
He cares not one wit about his health so why should I. I think it is wonderful that there are places like this to help one figure out what is right and wrong. I thank you all and God bless each and every one of you. And like some have said, maybe he will change. But then I certainly have. Thanks again. You people are wonderful.
someone asked if my son was driving. he lost his license with drunk driving and does not hae a vehicle. thank heavens for that.