Hi, I just noticed your post and wanted to tell you about
the I Survived Sphincteroplasty thread. I'm not sure if you've visited but a lot of us have had or are having splasties with varieying amount of success and/or complications. There's also a site for a few of us that have had fistula's and ostomies to deal with them on a Rectovaginal fistula site. I'm not sure if that's what you have but you'll find help with either there!