surgery

so i will be having surgery to have an arificial anal schincter put in and I didn't realize how upset my daughter is.  she's 15 and just tonight we had a long talk because she's been so moody and it came out.  i don't know what to do.  i reassured her, told her if she's got any questions to ask, that she has a guidance counsellor at school, i've looked online for ideas but i'm not finding much.  i already have a hard time being a single mom, we seem to alwayys be short of money which she also said bothers her and this makes me feel so crappy :(

thanks again