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becrhomat

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Posted 3/12/2011 6:57 PM (GMT -6)

so i will be having surgery to have an arificial anal schincter put in and I didn't realize how upset my daughter is. she's 15 and just tonight we had a long talk because she's been so moody and it came out. i don't know what to do. i reassured her, told her if she's got any questions to ask, that she has a guidance counsellor at school, i've looked online for ideas but i'm not finding much. i already have a hard time being a single mom, we seem to alwayys be short of money which she also said bothers her and this makes me feel so crappy :(

shawn12

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Posted 3/14/2011 11:30 AM (GMT -6)

becrhomat, sorry to hear your daughter is upset. I don't know of any resources off hand for this really.

Talking to her is a good thing.

I think your doing the right thing and hopefully everything turns out okay. If I can find some resources I will post them for you.

I know this must be tough on both of you.

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becrhomat

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Posted 3/14/2011 12:21 PM (GMT -6)

thanks again

Becky

shawn12

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Posted 3/14/2011 12:28 PM (GMT -6)

There maybe some information in here that may help, its not directly related but has some information.

http://kidshealth.org/parent/emotions/index.html#cat145

I feel for you Becky and wish the best.

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