I need help on how to cope with this tumor on my RT kidney. Its the size of a baseball and they dont find out if its cancer until 10 days after they take my RT kidney out! Im scared and so is my wife but we dont talk about how scared we are just try to be strong for one another, but inside im falling apart at the seems plus im in alot of pain from day to day. I go for the surgery on march 15th 2010. Im only 30 yrs old and cant believe this is happening to me! Please help me on being strong for me and my wife! Or if u no whats next for me cause u been there done that! I hope someone can help. After my surgery the doctor said I have to strict my diet and eat alot more healthyer then I already am. And just wondering if there is anyone out there with some good ideas on low sodium or no sodium meals I can prepare for myself from a day to day basis? Thanx for taking the time to read all of this.