I am glad you told that woman. So many people don't anything about lupus or even heard of it. I wish that their was more awareness out their on lupus you never here anybody talk about. People don't think about what they are doing of thing that they now what is wrong with you just by looling at you. I get stared at all the time. I have to wear a wound vac. on my foot because I had a ulcel on it and it has been their for 7 years. now and it just will not heal and people just stare at me all the time because I have to carry this thing around and it has a long tube coming out of it and I can't hardly walk. And I hate to go out because of people staring. But I still go to my son's ball games but I just try and not to look people in the face I just try and avoid people.