Your not alone here! You will meet some very nice people here that will help you in anyway possible. We all get very depressed from time to time and it is very normal. You will meet some ladies here that have had babies after being dianosed with lupus. I had two very healthy children before I was dx'd but did have lupus at the time. I had some mild problems while pregnant, but nothing serious.
I'm sure the ones that were pregant after being dx'd will come around soon to give you their experiences.
Hang in there and ask all the questions you want. Also, vent anytime you need too. We are here for you through this journey. Please take care and keep us updated. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Dx: Lupus,RLS,RA,Asthma,Fibro,Sjogren's,Raynaud's,Divertic, Stroke,Atherosclerosis,Seizures,Neuropathy,CAD
JOB For he wounds, but he also binds up; he injures, but his hands also heal.