I am sorry to hear that you are not feeling well. I know the nausea well. If you want to go the natural route ginger helps nausea. I don't know about
you but phenegren makes me very tired to the point where I am not productive. I started taking Zofran and it helps most of the time. It works very fast which is always good!
As far as the Lupus, I take Praquanil and it helps with the pain. It does however take a few months to start working.
I hope this helps and the only other thing I could suggest is to see a rhuematologist if you do not already.
Diagnosed: Lupus 1/2008 (symptoms for as long as I can remember), Reynauds, autoimmune hepititis, possible crohn's or colitis, hypothyroid 1998...more to come unfortunatly.
Medications: Praquanil, synthroid, prednisone, and off and on about 20 other medications...still trying to figure out what works i guess.